Sunday, December 8, 2024

Anna Sultana’s Tomato Tortellini Soup, Meatball and Potato Stew and Cinnamon Rolls / Christmas Gift Ideas

 

This year has been a bit different.
I won’t bore you with the details.
Suffice to say, we’re in good health and doing as well as can be expected for a couple of seniors.
Hope you are well, too, and looking forward to the holiday season.

Okay… nothing’s perfect.
The holiday season usually brings out the best in people.
It’s a great time for making memories.
 

It’s also a great time for making a lot of work for everyone.

There are a ton of things to do, but we still have to eat.
And, with the way food prices have been, we have to keep an eye on what we’re buying.
Soup is always great for the budget.
It usually uses items we already have in our kitchens, and it can be stretched with an extra cup or two of liquid.

Tortellini can be found, in two pound packages, in the deli section of most supermarkets.
If you have a small household, don’t be discouraged by the size of the package.
Half can be cooked and served with tomato sauce.
The rest can be used in a soup, making enough for two or three meals.
Everyone knows soup gets better with age.



Hints:


If you don’t have fresh garlic, use powder, as much as you prefer.



About the Meatball and Potato Stew…

You can add more water to adjust the thickness of the sauce.



About the Cinnamon Rolls…



If you don't have self-rising flour you can substitute for 1 Cup self-rising flour
1 Cup all purpose flour
1 teaspoon baking powder
1/4 teaspoon salt
Stir or sift together.

Want to make more so you’ll have some on hand?
9 Cups all purpose flour
3 Tablespoons baking powder
2 1/4 teaspoons salt
Stir or sift together.
Store in an airtight container in a cool, dark place. It should last for about one year.

Do not over-knead or the cinnamon rolls will be tough.

Leftovers can be wrapped and stored in the refrigerator for up to 1 week.
Rewarm in a 300° F oven about 10 minutes, until warmed through.


                                                               Tomato Tortellini Soup

Finely chop
1 medium onion
spinach or kale, enough for 3 Cups

Slice into 1/8 inch thick pieces
2 carrots
1 stalk celery

Mince
3 cloves garlic

Place in a dutch oven
1 Tablespoon olive oil
Heat oil over medium heat.
Add onion, carrots and celery.
Stirring frequently, cook for 5 to 7 minutes, until slightly softened.
Add
garlic
1 teaspoon salt
Cook another minute.
Add
1 796 ml / 28 ounce can crushed tomatoes
4 Cups water
1 teaspoon dried basil
Bring to a boil.
Add
500 grams / 1 pound fresh tortellini (either cheese or meat)
Cook 2 minutes less than package directions, about 5-8 minutes.
Stir in spinach (or kale), and cook another 2 minutes.

Serve hot.





                                                               Meatball and Potato Stew

Finely chop
1 medium onion

Mince
2 cloves garlic

Halve and cut into 1/4 inch slices
2 medium potatoes

Place in a bowl
454 g / 1 pound lean ground beef
1/4 Cup dried parsley leaves
half of the chopped onion
the minced garlic
1 teaspoon allspice
1 teaspoon paprika
1 teaspoon salt
1/4 teaspoon black pepper
1/4 Cup dry bread crumbs
Knead the mixture until well combined.
Form into 12 balls.

Place in a dutch oven
2 Tablespoons extra virgin olive oil
Heat oil over medium heat.
Place the meatballs in the pot and brown all sides.
Place the meatballs in a bowl and set aside.

Place in the same dutch oven
the remaining half of the chopped onion
Cook until soft, about 3 to 4 minutes.
Add
1/2 teaspoon salt
1/2 teaspoon allspice
Stir to combine.
Place the meatballs around the perimeter of the dutch oven.
Place potato slices between the meatballs, then place the rest in the middle.
Pour over the potato slices and meatballs
1 796 ml / 28 ounce can crushed tomatoes
1 Cup water
Cover and cook on medium heat for 15 minutes.
Uncover and check the potatoes for doneness.
If they are still firm, reduce heat and simmer for another 5 to 10 minutes.

Serve the stew over rice and garnish with parsley, if desired.




                                                               Cinnamon Rolls

Yield: 15

Place the rack in the middle of the oven.

Preheat oven to 350° F
Grease a 9x13 inch baking dish or line with parchment paper.

For the filling

Place in a small bowl
1/2 cup of the sugar
1 Tablespoon ground cinnamon
Mix together and set aside.

For the cinnamon rolls

Melt
1/2 Cup unsalted butter

Place in a large bowl
5 cups self-rising flour
1/4 cup granulated sugar
Stir to combine.

Place in a medium bowl
2 cups whole or 2% milk
4 Tablespoons of the melted butter (1/2 of the butter)
Mix together and add to the flour mixture.
Stir with a wooden spoon until all flour is worked into a soft dough.

Generously flour a work surface and a rolling pin.
Place the dough on the surface.
Sprinkle with flour, then knead until the dough is fairly smooth, sprinkling with more flour if needed.
Roll the dough into a 24 x 10 inch rectangle about 1/4 inch thick. 

Brush 2 tablespoons of the melted butter onto the surface of the dough.
Leaving a 1/2 inch border, sprinkle the cinnamon sugar mixture over it evenly. 

Starting at the long end closest to you, roll the dough up tightly into a log.
Pinch the seam together at the top, then place the log seam side down.
Cut the dough into 15 pieces. 
Place the cut rolls cut-side up in the baking dish. 


Brush the tops of the cinnamon rolls with the remaining 2 tablespoons of melted butter. 

Bake 35 minutes, until golden-brown, and a toothpick inserted in several spots comes out clean.
Place the baking dish on a wire cooling rack and allow to cool 15 minutes.

For the glaze

Place in a medium bowl
2 cups powdered sugar
1/4 cup whole milk or 2%
1/4 teaspoon fine salt
Whisk until smooth
.
Drizzle the glaze over the rolls. 


                                                       ~~~


Back in November, 2002, I wrote an essay for the CKUW radio show ‘2000 & Counting' about getting Christmas gifts. 
It was a meant as a light piece, filled with hints.

Many of our listeners were seniors or college students, folks known for having to stretch their dollars.

It's been a few years, but we’re still facing problems in the supply chain.

Christmas 2024 is only a couple of weeks away. How did that happen?

Okay… listen up! There are five weeks left until Christmas. That means gifts. I know, I know, it's more blessed to give than to receive. But, unless you have ways of shopping that you'd like to keep secret, giving gifts means money.  



It's a little late to start a Christmas gift account at your bank and the utility companies really lose that Ho Ho Ho spirit if you try to skip paying their bills.  

If the charge cards are already maxed out - or you just want to keep your nearest and dearest on a cash and carry basis - gift getting is going to take a little effort. Desperate times call for desperate measures. As we're all stuck with holidays - oh, lucky us - I'll tell you some of my desperate measures.


Live off your hump. You know what I mean. Things like the 18 cans of tuna you have left from the time you bought 20 cans so you could get 50 bonus airmiles. Now's the time to crack those babies open. I know the family hates tuna. That's why there are 18 little cans of fishies swimming around your pantry. 
Well, the family would hate a Giftless Christmas even more. 


Think about it. Lousy dinners happen to everybody. But the family Grinch who comes up giftless at Christmas gets blabbed about throughout the neighbourhood and the generations. 
You don't want to be remembered by your great-great-grandchildren as Granny Grinchie.


Try creative cooking. Pretend you're on the TV show Iron Chef. You've just been given a tube of ground beef, a bag of marshmallows, a jar of salsa, a bottle of raspberry vinegar, a carton of frozen spinach, a jar of maraschino cherries and a box of rice-a-roni. Think only a nut throws odd things together? How do you think raspberry vinegar was invented? 
If the family gets snarky, tell them you found the recipe in a magazine. Drop names. Martha is always good, and if they can't appreciate all the effort you put into making dinner interesting… Well! 
You know the speech. 
Remember, guilt, when the other person has it, is a good thing.

Go ethnic. Granny's recipes don't have to be saved for Folklorama. God bless family. Go to an Italian restaurant and get a load of the prices they charge for a plate of Pasta Fagioli. That's two cheapies: noodles and beans! Grandma would die laughing if she saw those prices. Starch and beans got millions of people through tough times. Go thou and eat likewise.

Beans aren't good enough? Go past the recognizable cuts and shop the mystery meats. Put enough spices on them and the family won't know what hit them. I once made spaghetti and meatballs using animal organs only a mother could love. Guess what? Hubby had invited a friend. Well, the buddy was getting a free meal, so I followed the Cook’s Golden Rule: Don't apologize and don't explain. 

The buddy said it was delicious, like the meatballs they serve at the Bay. 
Hmmm… I notice the Bay is still in business. There's more than one way to skin a cat.

Shop your house. No kidding. Grab a bag and stroll through your house. Look for things somebody foisted… uh… gave to you. Well, why should you be stuck with it until you're six feet under? Unless it was made by your preschooler - don't even think it, they DO remember - you're free to pass it on to someone else.
Just don't give it to the person who gave it to you.

Pack your own. Ever notice the little overpriced goodies the stores stuff into baskets and bowls? One current gift item is a box of pasta, a tin of sauce, some cheese and some wooden spoons nestled within a large bowl. 

Are you too stupid to do the same thing? I didn’t think so. It's one way to get rid of some of those extra airmiles purchases. Let somebody else eat the tuna. 

Still thinking about the folks in the flyers looking wildly happy over a toaster?  
Toss the flyers. Those models were paid big bucks. Stores want you to buy. A stress-free family holiday is not their goal. If they had their way you'd replace everything and pay 50% interest. 

Remember how the best presents were things that showed that someone cared? 
Maybe somebody hunted down an out-of-print book by your favourite author. 
The gadgets that looked amazing seem strange on December 26.  

While you're shopping, get yourself some treats.  
I have a friend who picks up a bag of  pfeffernusse cookies every year. When she feels like all she's doing is giving, giving, giving, she pops a pfeffernusse into her mouth and gives herself an old time Christmas. It doesn't take much.   

God bless us, everyone.

Sunday, October 20, 2024

Happy Fifteenth Anniversary to I’m Turning 60…!! by Margaret Ullrich

 

Happy Fifteenth Anniversary to I’m Turning 60… !!

I want to thank each of you for visiting, whether it's been on a daily, weekly or occasional basis!


Also, a big Thank you! to those who've told their friends to visit!
I especially want to thank everyone who has been kind enough to comment over the years.

I really appreciate it when you tell me that your family enjoyed a recipe, or that it brought back memories.

I also like it when you ask if I have a recipe for a particular dish.

I’m Turning 60… continues to be more popular, with more than twice as many visitors - than its older ’sibling’ blog Winnipeg is Better Than Chocolate!
Really!!

I’m Turning 60…
- with 1,158 posts - has had over 1,610,000 visitors since July, 2010, when Blogger started keeping track of both blogs.

That's more visitors than its ‘elder sibling’ blog, Winnipeg is Better Than Chocolate, which has 2,835 posts, and has received over 756,000 visitors. 

That's less than half the number of posts with over twice as many visitors!

Let’s get back to the recipes which deserve the credit for all these visits!

The weekly, as well as the monthly, top ten choices have frequent changes, especially during holiday seasons.
The current all-time top twenty posts are:

Carmela Soprano's Ricotta - Pineapple Pie (Cheesecake)
26.9K

Carmela Soprano's Penne alla Vodka / Penne in Cream Sauce
21.3K

Carmela Soprano's Sfogliatelle / Shfooyadell' (Baked Ricotta-Filled Pastries)
18.6K

Carmela Soprano's Ziti al Forno / Baked Ziti with Tiny Meatballs
18.4K

Anna Sultana's Imqarrun il-forn - Baked Macaroni, Maltese Style
18K

Carmela Soprano's Peppers and Eggs Sandwiches
17.7K

Carmela Soprano's Anginetti / Italian Lemon Knot Cookies with Lemon Glaze
16.2K

Carmela Soprano's Braciole / Stuffed Beef Rolls in Tomato Sauce
12.4K

Anna Sultana's *Ross il-Forn* - Baked Rice, Maltese Style
10.5K

Carmela Soprano's Manicotti with Ricotta Filling / Filling for Large Shells
9.4K

Carmela Soprano's Sunday Gravy (Tomato Sauce with Meat) and Homemade Meatballs
6.84K

Carmela Soprano's Meat Sauce and Lasagne #2, with Basil Leaves
6.01K

Carmela Soprano's Pizza Rustica recipe / Pizza Gaina / Italian Easter Pie with Ricotta and Meat
5.84K

Carmela Soprano's Scungilli in Hot Tomato Sauce l Preparing Conch and Friselle
5.74K

Anna Sultana's Ful bit-tewm - Broad Beans and Garlic, Maltese Style
5.06K

Carmela Soprano's Italian Easter Sweet Bread
5.03K

Carmela Soprano's Mom's Pear and Grappa Pound Cake
4.39K

Anna Sultana's Imqaret - Deep-fried Date Slices, Maltese Style l Jelly Doughnuts
3.61K

Anna Sultana's Christmas Cookies, Maltese Style
3.53K

Carmela Soprano's Rigatoni with Sweet Sausage and Tomato Sauce
3.44K



These 20 recipes have received 218.89 K visitors!


When Covid came to Canada, I gathered recipes for two as well as recipes according to type of ingredients, and shared the posts on Facebook. Here they are:

Bread Recipes made with Yeast, Baking Soda, Baking Powder or Sourdough Starter



Anna Sultana's Roasted Cornish Game Hens / Chicken and Meat Recipes for 2 Links




Anna Sultana's Lemon Cranberry Muffins / Baking Powder Substitutes 
 / Brunch, Dessert and Drink Recipes for 2



Anna Sultana's Pull-Apart Pizza 
 / Cheese, Egg, Vegetable, Meatless and Fish Recipes for 2



Anna Sultana's Pork Chops in Lemon Caper Sauce / Wine Substitutes for Cooking
 / Links for Capers Recipes



Anna Sultana’s Milkless, Eggless, Butterless Cakes (Chocolate or Raisin)
 and Two-Egg Sponge Cake



Anna Sultana’s Coconut Cake, Marshmallow Buttercream Frosting, Boiled Frosting
 and Quick Fudge


Please, if you haven’t already, do try a few of the recipes on these lists.

Just copy the name of the recipe and place it in the space under ‘Looking for a recipe?’ and click ‘search’.
Hope you find these grouped listings useful.



I'm always amazed at learning where you live.
I expected visitors from the United States, Canada, Australia and the United Kingdom since many Maltese immigrated to these countries, especially after World War II.

The other top countries are a pleasant surprise.


The top twenty countries and their visitors are:
United States……….…... 750 K

Singapore………….….…158 K

Canada…………….……. 124 K

Malta……………..….....… 83.5 K

Australia………………….. 73.1 K

United Kingdom….........…. 49.9 K
Hong Kong………..…….....44.1 K

Russia……………….…..... 35.7 K

Türkiye………….…......…. 29.4 K

Germany………….…...….. 27.9 K

France…………..….….….. 18.7 K

Ukraine………..………….. 11.9 K

Sweden………...…….....….. 7.89 K

Indonesia………..……...….. 6.03 K

Netherlands……..….…..….. 5.88 K

Philippines………..…....….. 4.83 K

Unknown Region…........….. 4.15 K

Brazil………….…....…..….. 4.02 K

China…………...….…….… 3.14 K

Other……………..…...… 166 K


During the years there have also been visitors from Italy, Finland, Poland, Spain, Macedonia, Mexico, Afghanistan, Thailand, Slovakia, Ireland, Denmark, Bangladesh, Israel, Moldova, Malaysia, Kuwait, Greece, Kenya, Vietnam, Czech Republic, Bermuda, Namibia, Cyprus, India, Japan, South Korea, Norway, New Zealand, Madagascar, Armenia, South Africa, Iceland, Kyrgyzstan, Tanzania, Argentina, United Arab Emirates, Belgium, Tunisia, Taiwan, Paraguay, Columbia, China, Jamaica, Portugal, Bahamas, Kazakhstan, French Guiana, Côte d’Ivoire, Bangladesh, Egypt, Kenya, Oman, Hungary, Belarus, Switzerland, Czechia, Lebanon, Austria, Venezuela, Bulgaria, Dominican Republic, Lebanon, U.S. Virgin Islands, Gibraltar, Jersey, Nigeria, Serbia, Equador, Saudi Arabia, Azerbaijan, Estonia, Albania, Romania and Luxembourg.

It is a small world after all!!

I don't post regularly and I don’t put my blog posts’ links on Facebook.
I do post a link on Twitter whenever there is a new post. 

If you feel more comfortable using Twitter, just click on the Twitter link '@ImTurning60' and we’ll keep in touch that way.

I'd also like you to tell me what recipes you want to know about.
It's easy to do - just click on 'Comments' and write.
Would you like more holiday recipes, or more easy, cheap, quick meals or…?

Thanks again for visiting!

I hope you'll drop by again real soon.

Stay safe and well!

Sunday, February 25, 2024

Anna Sultana’s Fougasse Bread, Onion Focaccia and Fast Focaccia / Use It Now


Fougasse Bread

The major news story, on both sides of the border, is the rising food prices.

I can remember buying a loaf of Italian bread for a dollar.

Now, it costs over two dollars.

Now, I’m not buying it.



Nope… now it’s time to make some Italian bread of my own.

Ma used to make focaccia with herbs and onions.
Focaccia is an Italian flat bread that’s easy to make. 

It’s perfect right out of the oven with a bowl of soup or a salad.

It can also be used in place of rolls for sandwiches.



Fougasse is a type of focaccia from the Provence area in Southern France.
Don’t let that scare you. It’s easy to make.
Focaccia is cooked in a pan and has dimpling on the top of the loaf.
Fougasse is cooked like a pizza and is slashed to look like a wheat sheaf.
It has a crisp crust and a spongy, slightly chewy inside and is perfect for snacking, dipped in oil or spread with soft cheese.


Here ’s a link for a few other of Ma's Focaccia recipes
Anna Sultana’s Herbed Focaccia and Focaccia with Tomatoes & Onions / One-Hour Skillet Focaccia, Fast No-Knead Focaccia, No-Knead Skillet Focaccia

https://imturning60help.blogspot.com/2023/01/focacciaanna-sultanas-herbed-focaccia.html

Enjoy!


Hints:

About the Fougasse Bread…
A typical Provence combination of herbs is rosemary, thyme and oregano.
You can also add things like olives and anchovies or ham or cheese.
Or whatever you like, or have in your fridge or on your shelves.

If there is still flour in the bowl, gradually add a little water to blend into the whole.

It can also be baked in a muffin tin, without slashes, for individual loaves.

Fougasse
is best eaten warm and freezes well.


About the Focaccia breads…
If you use whole wheat flour it will be a bit more dense, not light and fluffy.



You can also use refrigerated pizza dough. Bake at 375º F for 35 to 40 minutes or until golden brown. 



You could top it with herbs like oregano, or thick slices of garlic or shallots, or sesame seeds, as well as with halved grape tomatoes, chopped black olives, sun-dried tomatoes or thinly sliced lemons.



Some ingredients should be added after the bread has baked. For example: delicate herbs, such as basil, and garnishes, such as honey, that might burn in the oven, should be added to baked bread.



Focaccia is best the day it is made but it can be stored, well-wrapped, at room temperature for a day. The crust will soften, but, if the crust gets too soft, it can be warmed and crisped in a 350° F oven for a few minutes. 



Focaccia freezes well. Let it defrost at room temperature and then reheat in a 350° F oven.

About the Onion Focaccia
If, when you press the dough after the third rising, it sinks and deflates, it is overproofed.
You can still bake it and call it flatbread.

The dough can be made a day ahead. Wrap tightly after the second rising and refrigerate.

About the Fast Focaccia
The dough can be used right away, but it is much easier to handle if it’s been thoroughly chilled. The dough can be stored in the refrigerator for up to two weeks, or in the freezer, as shaped loaves, for a few months.
The frozen loaves need to sit at room temperature for 35 minutes before they are baked.

The baking time will vary depending on the focaccia’s thickness.


                                                               Fougasse Bread

Makes 1 small loaf
Line a baking sheet with parchment paper.

Combine in a large bowl
1 1/2 Cups flour
1 teaspoon yeast
1 teaspoon salt
1 teaspoon rosemary
1/4 teaspoon thyme
1/4 teaspoon oregano
Add
1 Tablespoon extra virgin olive oil
1/2 Cup plus 1 Tablespoon warm water
Stir together until it all comes together.

Place the mixture on a lightly floured surface and knead 5 minutes, or until the dough is smooth and not sticky. If needed, add a little more flour. Bring dough together into a ball.

Lightly oil the large bowl and return the dough to it.
Cover with a towel and place in a warm place. Leave to double in size, about an hour.
Once the dough has doubled, place it on a lightly floured surface.
Stretch it out into an oval shape, about 2/3 inch thick.
Place the dough on the lined baking sheet.
Using a sharp knife, make a long cut down the middle of the dough, then three cuts on either side. Gently stretch open each of the cuts to leave a set of openings in the dough in a leaf-like pattern.
Cover with a damp cloth and leave to rest 25 minutes.

Preheat oven to 430º F


Remove the cloth and brush the top of the loaf with
1 Tablespoon extra virgin olive oil
Sprinkle over loaf
1/4 teaspoon coarse sea salt
Bake for 15 to 20 minutes until golden and hollow-sounding when tapped on the bottom.
Allow to cool slightly before slicing or tearing into pieces.


                                                               Onion Focaccia


Place in large mixer bowl

2 1/4 teaspoons yeast
2 teaspoons honey
2 Tablespoons olive oil
2 Cups warm water

Stir together.

Add 

5 Cups flour
Stir to blend.
Add

1 teaspoon Kosher salt
Stir to combine. It will still be wet and sticky.
Cover bowl tightly with plastic wrap.
Place in a warm spot until dough doubles in size, about 60 minutes

Lightly flour work surface and turn dough out onto it.
Sprinkle flour on the dough and knead until it looks smooth and elastic.

Oil the large mixer bowl, put dough in it and rotate the dough to cover surface with oil.
Cover bowl tightly with plastic wrap.
Place in a warm spot and let sit until dough doubles in size, about 45 to 60 minutes.

Generously oil a rimmed baking sheet, about 12 3⁄4 by 17 3⁄4 inches.
Turn the dough onto the baking sheet and stretch the dough into a flat, even layer.
Generously drizzle olive oil over the top and place a piece of plastic lightly over it.
Place in a warm spot and let sit for another 45 to 60 minutes. The dough should look puffy.

Slice into rings about 1/8 inch thick
1 small red onion



Preheat oven to 425º F 


Gently press the dough. It should spring back slightly.
Make indentations in the dough with your fingers.
Scatter the onion rings over the top and drizzle with olive oil.
Sprinkle with
sea salt


Bake for 35 to 45 minutes, until golden brown and the onion has caramelized. 

Remove from oven and cool slightly, then cut into pieces and serve.


                                                               Fast Focaccia

Place in each of 2   9 inch cake pan
2 Tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil
Evenly coat the bottom of the pans with the oil.

Place the rack in the middle of the oven.


Place in a large bowl

1 1/2 Cups plus 2 Tablespoons lukewarm water
2 Tablespoons extra virgin olive oil
1 1/2 teaspoons yeast
2 1/4 teaspoons kosher salt
1 Tablespoon sugar
3 3/4 Cups flour

Stir together to form a rough dough.

Cover bowl and let rest on the counter for two hours.

Dust the surface of the dough lightly with flour.
Take half of the dough, dust again with flour and knead for a few minutes.
Flatten it into a disk 1/2 inch thick, six to seven inches in diameter.
Place the dough in an oiled cake pan to coat the bottom surface with oil.
Take the dough out of the pan, turn the dough over, return the dough to the pan, cover the pan with plastic wrap, and let rest for 15 minutes.

Repeat with the second half of the dough.

Gently push the dough to the edges of the cake pan.
Sprinkle with
1 teaspoon finely chopped rosemary
kosher salt
Cover with plastic wrap, and allow the dough to rest for 20 minutes.

Repeat with the second half of the dough.


Preheat oven to 425º F 


Place the cake pans in the oven.
Bake for 20 to 25 minutes, until the crust is medium brown and feels dry and firm.
Loosen the loaf from the edges of the pan, then transfer the focaccia to a cutting board.
Cut into wedges and serve warm, or allow to cool completely.

                                                       ~~~
Back in February 2004 we, the hosts of our CKUW radio show ‘2000 & Counting’, had a few things to say about the holiday season we’d just survived. 

I had a few thoughts on what we could do with our Christmas gifts.

Don’t think it changed anybody's mind. Can't fight traditions.




Christmas is over. Boxing Day is finis. People are frantically trying to find some forgotten corner in their homes where they can stash away their great bargains. Ah, holidays… Does anything else make us work this hard?

It's also time for resolutions. You've heard them all: stop smoking, lose weight, get into shape. Fine. Health is important.  

But, let's tackle a problem that cuts across all ethnic, socio-economic, age and national borders. A problem that causes hurt feelings in every family. A problem that can haunt your family even after you've gone to that great bargain hunt in the sky. 

The problem is saving. I'm not talking about GICs, RSPs, stocks or bonds. No. I'm talking about Christmas Gift Saving.

Remember Christmas? You unwrapped a gift while your loved ones held their breaths and stared, eagerly awaiting your reaction. You didn't disappoint. You oohed and aahed and said you loved it. You loved the colour, the material, the cut, the fragrance, the thought and the care that made your sweeties decide that you just had to have it. 

Then you packed it away.

Oh, I know the excuses:

You're saving it for a special occasion.

You're saving it for when company comes over.

You don't want to ruin it.

You'll use it when you have a blouse, skirt, hat, coat or umbrella that'll really go great with it.

You'll use it when you've lost a few pounds.

You - as you are now, with what you own now - are not good enough to use the darn thing.

What does this mean? Are you saying that in the future you want to be given something you'll hate? That if it was something awful you'd feel free to use it?

Trust me. They didn't take out a loan to buy it. They probably bought it at last year's Boxing Day sales. Half price.  

Repeat after me: I'm good enough to use it. Say it again. I knew you could. 
Ready to use it now? No, eh. 

Oh, I can hear you. You got through the depression, the war, corporate downsizings. You know how to do without and save. Whoopee!! Even if there were another depression, we won't go on a Jean Nate cologne barter system. The good old days of black markets are gone. Today war means total annihilation. Your Jean Nate will vaporize.

Clothes do go out of style. Your grandchildren won't want them. Did you hear about the huge sale the Kennedys had after Jackie died? Caroline wasn't eager to wear those little pillbox hats her Mom had made so popular. Unless you have a relative working for the costume museum in Dugald, those mint condition scarves, blouses and purses will end up at the Sally Ann, or bundled for paint rags.

You want them to remember you? Use the gift. They'll be fighting like cats and dogs to inherit your old purse because it'll remind them of you. There… Doesn't the image of your nearest and dearest in a knock down drag out battle make you feel all warm and toasty.  

Happy New Year and enjoy!